FAQ

What are the vibes?

We’re throwing a big fun bash to celebrate our recent tying of the knot. We have already celebrated with our families, so this is a friends-only soiree. You can expect dinner, a kooky little ceremony, an open bar including non-alcoholic cocktails, DJ sets from some of our faves, a photo booth, and a hookah corner (aka a good time).

Where is the party?

We’re hosting you at our favorite bar, El Rio. It's a spot that's near and dear to our hearts as a staple of the Mission, a safe space for SF’s queer community, and a beacon of progressivism. We're so excited to celebrate with you in a place that means a lot to us.

What should I wear?

We thought you’d never ask! This is your chance to wear something fun and festive. Don’t feel like you need to be overly formal, just don’t be boring. Think Studio 54 meets the party from Saltburn. Pull that fur coat out from the back of your closet. You can even wear white if you want!

Please note most of the party will be outside in El Rio’s lush patio. They have outdoor heaters, and we picked September for its warm nights, but bring a layer just in case.

Can I bring a plus one?

Yes!! If you've both received an invitation, please just fill out the RSVP form one time.

Gifts?

No! Your presence is the present.